Between work, business, school and other daily responsibilities, life can become very demanding. Sometimes, we become so occupied with our personal activities that we forget to check on the people closest to us.
We may spend hours communicating with colleagues, friends and people we meet online, yet go several days without asking how our relatives are doing.
But have we ever stopped to consider that our family members also need our attention, care and support?
YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS HAVE RIGHTS OVER YOU
Allah says:
“And give the relative his right, and [also] the poor and the traveller…” (Qur’an 17:26)
This verse reminds us that our relatives have rights over us and that we should not neglect our responsibilities towards them.
Maintaining family relationships is not simply something we do when we have free time. It is an important part of our responsibilities as Muslims.
SMALL ACTS OF CARE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Maintaining family ties does not always require money or expensive gifts. Sometimes, it begins with a simple phone call, a visit, a message or asking someone how they are coping.
You may have a relative who is facing difficulties but does not know how to ask for help. A simple conversation could give that person comfort and remind them that they are not forgotten.
Never underestimate the importance of checking on people, especially those who may be going through difficult situations silently.
DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOU NEED SOMETHING
One mistake people make is contacting relatives only when they need financial assistance, information or another favour.
Maintaining family ties should involve genuine concern, not just personal benefit.
Make time to check on your parents, siblings, relatives and other family members. Even when your schedule is demanding, try to create opportunities to remain connected.
HERAT CHECK
When was the last time you checked on a family member simply because you wanted to know how they were doing?
May Allah help us maintain our family ties, show kindness to our relatives and make us a source of comfort to one another. Ameen.
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