A family is made up of people with different needs, opinions and responsibilities. For this reason, making important family decisions without listening to others can create misunderstandings and unnecessary disagreements.
Sometimes, one person makes decisions that affect the entire household without considering how those decisions will affect other family members.
Islam encourages consultation and teaches us that seeking the opinions of others is an important quality of believers.
CONSULTATION IS A QUALITY OF BELIEVERS
Allah says:
“And those who have responded to their Lord and established prayer and whose affair is [determined by] consultation among themselves…” (Qur’an 42:38)
This verse highlights the importance of consultation in the lives of believers.
Rather than making every decision independently, Muslims are encouraged to listen, consider different opinions and seek what is best.
HOW CONSULTATION STRENGTHENS A FAMILY
Consultation can be practised when making decisions about finances, children’s education, household responsibilities, relocation and other matters that affect the family.
Husbands and wives should learn to communicate and listen to each other’s concerns. Parents can also allow their children to express their opinions on matters appropriate for their age.
When family members feel heard and respected, it becomes easier to build trust and cooperation within the home.
YOU DO NOT ALWAYS HAVE TO AGREE
Consultation does not mean that everyone must agree on every issue. Different people may have different opinions, but disagreements should be handled with wisdom and respect.
The purpose is not to allow everyone to have their way but to ensure that important decisions are made thoughtfully and fairly.
A peaceful family is not necessarily one where disagreements never happen. It is one where people learn to communicate, listen and handle differences with understanding.
HEART CHECK
When making decisions that affect your family, do you consider the opinions and feelings of the people involved?
May Allah bless our homes with wisdom, understanding, patience and mutual respect. Ameen.
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