Sometimes the biggest obstacle between a person and growth is not lack of knowledge.
It is the inability to admit, “I was wrong.”
Your ego can make you refuse advice, reject correction, hold grudges and defend behaviour you know is wrong.
And when the ego becomes stronger than the desire to please Allah, it can quietly damage your deen.
WHAT IS EGO?
Ego can appear in many forms.
It can sound like:
“I don’t need anyone to correct me.”
“Why should I apologise first?”
“I already know this.”
“I will never admit I was wrong.”
“They should come and apologise to me.”
Sometimes ego even hides behind religious knowledge. A person may know more than others but use that knowledge to look down on them instead of becoming more humble.
ISLAM TEACHES HUMILITY
Allah says:
«“And do not turn your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like every self-deluded and boastful person.”— Qur’an 31:18»
Being confident is not the same as being arrogant.
You can recognise your abilities without believing you are better than everyone else.
You can be knowledgeable without humiliating those who know less.
You can succeed without looking down on people who are still struggling.
LEARN TO ACCEPT CORRECTION
Nobody gets everything right.
If someone points out a genuine mistake, listen before becoming defensive.
Ask yourself:
“Could this person be right?”
If they are right, accept it.
If you are wrong, apologise.
If you do not know something, say, “I don’t know.”
These simple words can protect a person from pretending to be perfect.
APOLOGISING DOES NOT MAKE YOU WEAK
Some young people think apologising means losing.
It doesn’t.
Sometimes the strongest sentence you can say is:
“I was wrong. I’m sorry.”
You do not lose your dignity by admitting a mistake.
You gain the opportunity to correct it.
DON’T LET PRIDE STOP YOU FROM RETURNING TO ALLAH
The ego can also affect our relationship with Allah.
Sometimes a person knows they need to repent but keeps delaying because they do not want to admit they have been wrong.
But repentance requires humility.
You have to admit:
“I made a mistake.”
“I need Allah.”
“I cannot fix everything by myself.”
And there is strength in that admission.
LET YOUR DEEN MAKE YOU HUMBLER
The more you learn about Allah, the more you should recognise your own need for Him.
Knowledge should produce humility.
Worship should improve character.
Success should produce gratitude.
And mistakes should teach you to return to Allah.
HEART CHECK
Do not allow your ego to protect a version of yourself that Allah is asking you to improve.
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