WHY YOU SHOULD STOP MAKING ISLAM DIFFICULT UPON YOURSELF

There is a moment in every Muslim’s life when the desire to do things properly becomes so strong that it quietly crosses into making things unnecessarily heavy. It happens to people who love Allah sincerely. They want to be their best selves. They want their salah to be flawless, their wudu perfect, their intentions pure, their recitation heartfelt. But in the middle of that sincere striving, something subtle can go wrong: faith becomes tangled in pressure instead of tranquillity.

Islam never demanded this from you.

One of the most beautiful principles in our religion is that Allah created Islam to be lived not to be survived. Every teaching, every guideline, every obligation arrives with mercy built into it. Even the verses that command us to obey also remind us that Allah does not burden a soul beyond its capacity. That isn’t a decorative phrase; it is a foundational truth about how Allah relates to His servants.

Yet the human heart, when overwhelmed, starts to complicate what Allah simplified.

A person begins repeating wudu because they “don’t feel sure.” Then they redo their salah because “maybe I made a mistake.” Another person delays reading Qur’an because they think their intention isn’t “pure enough yet.” Someone avoids du’a because their heart doesn’t feel present. Someone else obsesses over every tiny slip until their worship feels like walking on glass.

Slowly, the faith that was given as ease becomes difficult, not because the religion changed, but because our internal standards became harsher than Allah’s.

The Prophet ﷺ warned clearly: “This religion is easy, and no one makes it harsh upon himself except that it defeats him.” He did not say this to discourage striving. He said it to protect believers from self-inflicted hardship the kind that drains iman instead of strengthening it.

Islam grows with you in stages. Its beauty lies in how it accommodates your humanity: your busy days, your tiredness, your family demands, your private struggles, your emotional ups and downs. Allah takes all of that into consideration. When you pray while exhausted, He knows. When you make du’a distracted, He hears. When you read Qur’an slowly, He sees. When all you can offer is the bare minimum because life is overwhelming, He still values it more than you can comprehend.

This faith is not a test of perfection—it’s a journey of sincerity.

When you stop making Islam difficult upon yourself, you aren’t becoming careless. You’re actually returning to the way the Prophet ﷺ taught his companions. They were trained to avoid extremes. They were encouraged to choose the simpler option when both were valid. They were reminded not to exhaust themselves to the point of abandoning good deeds altogether.

Islam thrives in moderation. It strengthens you when you allow space for breath, renewal, and consistency. A simple prayer done every day is more beloved to Allah than an intense act of worship done once in a burst of pressure and never repeated.

When you release the unnecessary difficulty, something beautiful happens. Worship becomes sweet again. Salah becomes a conversation, not a chore. Qur’an becomes nourishment, not a checklist. Du’a becomes companionship, not a performance. You stop policing yourself and start connecting with Allah from a place of trust instead of fear.

You begin to understand why Allah chose mercy as the very first introduction of Himself in the Qur’an—Ar-Rahman, Ar-Raheem. Because a faith rooted in mercy touches every part of your life: how you pray, how you approach your obligations, how you treat your mistakes, how you rise again after falling.

The more you embrace the ease Allah placed in your religion, the more your heart opens to Him.

Islam is not supposed to break you. It’s supposed to build you, soften you, shape you, and carry you through the storms of life with dignity and serenity. When you allow that mercy to reach you, you realise something profound: the path to Allah was always meant to be walkable. It was your own worries, anxieties, and internal pressures that made it feel steep.

Stepping back into simplicity is not a step backward. It is returning to the purity of this faith as Allah intended it.

Where you go from here becomes lighter, calmer, and more grounded when you stop complicating what Allah made beautifully clear.